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As we look ahead to 2026, wedding design continues to evolve into something more personal, more tactile, and infinitely more expressive. Forget the cookie-cutter Pinterest weddings of the past decade—this new era is all about feeling the celebration, not just seeing it. From sensorial surfaces to kinetic installations and deeply individual design choices, couples in 2026 are curating immersive experiences that reflect who they are in the most artistic ways. The three defining pillars of the coming year? Texture, movement, and unique detail.


1. Texture as a Visual and Tactile Statement

Gone are the days of flat, one-dimensional palettes. In 2026, texture is not just a supporting element—it’s the star.

  • Velvet & Suede Touches: Expect to see plush velvets in lounge furniture, napkin wraps, and even wedding attire. Suede accents are appearing in stationery, escort cards, and ribbon details.

  • Layered Fabrics: Layering sheer organza over linen, embroidered tulle over rustic cotton, and fringe on top of velvet adds dimension to tablescapes and ceremony backdrops.

  • Raw Edges & Earthy Elements: Imperfect finishes are being celebrated—from torn-edge stationery to raw silk runners and clay pottery replacing polished ceramics.

  • Floral Textures: Petal-heavy blooms like ranunculus, garden roses, scabiosa, and dried elements like lunaria and amaranthus are being mixed to create layered, tactile arrangements.

Pro Tip: Encourage guests to interact with design elements—whether it’s by feeling a velvet-covered menu, or exploring textural installations that double as photo backdrops.





2. Movement: The New Elegance

2026 couples want their weddings to breathe—to have life and flow, both literally and metaphorically. Movement is the elegant disruptor of static traditions.

  • Kinetic Installations: Think hanging florals that gently sway in the breeze, rotating chandeliers of paper cranes, or cascading ribbons that flutter above the dance floor.

  • Flowing Fabrics: Billowing drapes, suspended linens, and streaming textiles in outdoor settings will add visual drama and softness at once.

  • Interactive Ceremony Spaces: No more sitting in perfect rows. Ceremonies are being designed in the round, or with serpentine aisles and moving parts—like flower petals released from above.

  • Dynamic Lighting: Light is becoming part of the choreography. Think slow-moving projections that mimic water or clouds, programmable LED installations that shift with the music, or candlelight that moves with the wind.

  • Interesting Shapes as an Alternative: If literal movement feels like too bold a choice, you can still capture a sense of flow by integrating interesting shapes into the décor. Whether organic curves or sharp geometrics, sculptural forms add rhythm and visual intrigue to your scenography. Arched floral installations, asymmetric ceremony backdrops, undulating tablescapes, and uniquely shaped signage or menus can all suggest movement—without anything actually moving.

Inspiration: The goal is to create motion that feels organic and emotionally resonant—not distracting. Think ballet, not Broadway.

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3. Unique Details That Tell a Story

Personalization has long been a wedding buzzword, but in 2026, it deepens into something more curated and culturally rich.

  • Cultural & Regional Layers: Whether it’s Provençal motifs for a French destination wedding or textile nods to a couple’s heritage, subtle cultural details are woven into the aesthetic fabric rather than being placed on top of it.

  • Unexpected Pairings: Mixing antique and modern, rustic and polished, surreal and traditional. For example: Louis XVI chairs paired with modern acrylic tables, or classic monograms reinterpreted in abstract line art.

  • Custom Keepsakes: Forget generic favors. Guests receive pressed-flower paperweights, handwritten letters sealed with wax, or scents created just for the event.

  • Hyper-Personal Stationery: Illustrated maps, collaged menus, layered cards with different textures—stationery becomes a tactile storytelling element.

  • Statement Ceremony Backdrops: Instead of standard arches, think artist-created structures: sculptural walls, floral clouds, or installations made from meaningful objects or quotes.

Idea: Couples are even collaborating with artists to create one-of-a-kind décor or ceremony elements that reflect their personal love story.


4. Destination Weddings in France: A Living Canvas for Design Trends

Nowhere does the 2026 design philosophy come to life more fully than in a destination wedding in France. The country’s diversity makes it the perfect stage for a creative, dynamic, modern wedding with depth and refined detail.

  • A Timeline That Moves: Whether you're watching the light shift on Parisian rooftops, the breeze ripple through vineyard rows in Bordeaux, or fountains dance in the garden of a Loire Valley castle, France creates its own poetry of a wedding flow. Couples are leaning into this, designing timelines that follow the rhythm of the day—ceremonies at golden hour, candlelit dinners that blend seamlessly into open-air parties.

  • Details With Soul: French artisanship—calligraphy, floral design, linen weaving, perfumery—adds a level of authenticity and depth impossible to replicate elsewhere. 2026 couples are embracing handmade, intentional elements that celebrate where they are just as much as why they’re there.

  • Cultural Touchpoints: Incorporating regional cuisine, historic settings, and even local wedding customs (like sabrage or vin d’honneur) adds narrative layers that elevate the event far beyond visual beauty.

Curious about planning your destination wedding in France? Explore our guide to luxury wedding planning in France, where you'll find tips, inspiration, and expert advice for creating a celebration rooted in beauty, intention, and ease.


Honorable Mentions: What Else is On the Horizon?

  • Micro-Motion Florals: Designers are beginning to incorporate technology that allows installations to subtly move—floral clouds that drift, mechanical petals that open with sound.

  • Scent Design: Curated scent experiences tied to each wedding “moment” (the ceremony, cocktail hour, dinner) are on the rise.

  • Sustainability by Design: Eco-conscious design is integrated—not spotlighted—with reusable structures, seasonal blooms, local artisans, and thoughtful materials.


Final Thought: A Wedding You Can Feel

The unifying theme of 2026? Weddings that awaken the senses. Through textured surfaces, flowing elements, and personalized, meaningful design, the modern wedding becomes less of a spectacle and more of an emotional landscape. It’s not about being trendy—it’s about being felt. Whether guests remember the softness of the velvet napkins, the gentle rustle of the ceremony canopy, or the fragrance of wild jasmine as they danced under the stars, the wedding of 2026 lingers in memory because it connected on a human, sensory level.

Ready to bring your vision to life in one of the most romantic countries on Earth? Our expertise lies in creating weddings that are as seamless as they are spectacular—from château celebrations to seaside soirées. Let’s create something unforgettable, together.

 
 
 

There’s something extraordinary about a small wedding in France.

It’s not just the setting — though the châteaux, vineyards, and gardens certainly help — it’s the atmosphere: calm, personal, and deeply intentional. A smaller guest list allows you to focus on what truly matters — connection, design, and experience.


At Bonjour Weddings, we love helping couples create intimate, multi-day celebrations in France that are just as luxurious and meaningful as larger weddings — often even more so. Here’s how to plan a small wedding or micro wedding in France that feels refined, relaxed, and unforgettable.


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What Is a Micro Wedding (and Why They’re Perfect in France)


A micro wedding is typically a celebration with 10 to 40 guests — smaller in scale, but rich in detail and emotion. It’s not an elopement (which usually involves only the couple), but rather a beautifully curated event where every guest is part of your inner circle.

France lends itself perfectly to this kind of celebration. With centuries-old estates, private villas, and charming boutique hotels, the country offers countless spaces that shine in intimacy.

And because the guest list is smaller, you can focus on crafting an experience, not just an event — fine dining, beautiful design, and meaningful moments shared with the people who matter most.

A micro wedding in France isn’t about doing less — it’s about doing everything with more care, intention, and beauty.
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Why France Is the Ultimate Destination for an Intimate Wedding


Few countries offer the variety and sophistication that France does. Whether you dream of vineyard views, city glamour, or coastal romance, each region tells its own story:

  • Provence & the French Riviera: Sun-drenched landscapes, olive trees, and the scent of lavender in the air. Perfect for outdoor dinners and vineyard ceremonies.

  • Paris & Île-de-France: Chic urban settings and grand private mansions where intimacy meets elegance.

  • Loire Valley: Fairytale castles, manicured gardens, and timeless architecture.

  • Southwest France: A slower pace, exquisite gastronomy, and countryside charm.

  • Haute-Savoie & the Alps: Crystal lakes, panoramic views, and a sense of serenity — ideal for summer or winter celebrations.

France’s diversity means there’s a perfect setting for every kind of small wedding — from sunlit courtyards to candlelit château salons.
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Small Guest List, Grand Experience


The true luxury of a small wedding lies in the freedom to go further. With fewer guests, every detail can be elevated — not just refined, but transformed into an experience that feels entirely bespoke. It’s not about scaling down — it’s about scaling deeper into emotion, creativity, and storytelling.


Imagine a week-long journey through France designed entirely around your love story — a wedding itinerary that begins in Paris, where your guests toast your engagement at a rooftop soirée overlooking the Eiffel Tower. The celebration continues through Provence, with wine tastings, lavender-field picnics, and an open-air dinner under olive trees, before culminating in a glamorous finale on the French Riviera, complete with a private yacht ceremony or seaside farewell brunch.


Here’s what luxury looks like when every moment is custom-crafted:

  • Curated Wedding Week Itineraries: Multi-day experiences designed for intimacy and immersion — from private tours (think Versailles after hours, or like for some of our past clients, behind the scenes of the Boucheron maison on place Vendôme) to sunset hot-air balloon rides over Loire-Valley Chateaux. Each event becomes part of your shared story.

  • Extraordinary Culinary Experiences: Invite a Michelin-starred chef to design your menus, or host a tasting dinner where each course reflects a chapter of your relationship. Add flair with champagne sabrage, private vineyard tours, or tableside mixology shows. Truffle Hunting and farm to table feasts, coocking classes... take your guests on a trip they'll remember for ever.

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  • Immersive Design and Guest Details: Think beyond beautiful décor — hand-painted plates, personalized ice cube stamps, and a bespoke invitation experience, where stationery takes a whole different dimension. Every texture and tone reflects you.

  • Cultural and Artistic Touches: Explore French culture and let your guests be part of it. Have guests take part in creating their own fragrance at a historic perfumerie, or design the wedding fragrance together, arrange for a mini-opera or chamber concert in a historic venue or château ballroom, exclusive to your guests, an exhibition or performance curated around your passions in an intimate setting.

  • Unforgettable Experiences: Ceremonies on boats gliding through Riviera waters, private museum dinners, or fireworks above your château as a live orchestra plays your song.

A small wedding gives you the rare privilege to create something extraordinary — not just an event, but a once-in-a-lifetime experience designed entirely around your story.

At Bonjour Weddings, we specialize in crafting these immersive, experience-led celebrations — intimate in scale, expansive in imagination. Each micro wedding becomes a full-sensory journey that blends refinement, artistry, and the effortless charm of France.


If you’re ready to turn your intimate celebration into something extraordinary, let’s begin designing a wedding experience that could only happen in France.



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Budget Realities: What to Expect for a Luxurious Small Wedding


It’s true that some couples plan a small destination wedding in France with the hopes of having to spend less. With creative planning, this can allow for an intimate day focused on elegance and simplicity.

However, for couples dreaming of a fully immersive, design-led experience — multi-day events, high-touch service, and bespoke details — budgets typically start from €100,000–€150,000 and beyond.

This range allows for:

  • Exclusive-use venues

  • Professional planning and design services

  • Top tier vendors on your team

  • Multi-day catering and guest experiences

  • Tailored floral design, lighting, and styling


At Bonjour Weddings, our services include full planning, artistic direction and concerge services reflecting the depth of creative direction, vendor management, and logistical expertise required to design an event that feels effortlessly luxurious — no matter the size.

A smaller guest list doesn’t mean a smaller vision — it means your investment can go further into crafting something deeply personal and exquisitely executed.
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The Role of a Planner in a Micro Wedding


Even with fewer guests, destination weddings in France involve hundreds of moving parts — logistics, contracts, language differences, and design execution.

A planner ensures your intimate celebration feels seamless, not stressful:

  • Venue scouting — finding hidden gems that perfectly fit your scale and vision, often exploring non-traditional wedding venue options.

  • Vendor coordination — building a trusted, bilingual team of caterers, florists, and photographers specifically selected for you and your wedding project.

  • Guest management — transportation, accommodations, and scheduling across time zones.

  • Design cohesion — ensuring every detail contributes to one coherent story.

At Bonjour Weddings, we believe intimacy deserves just as much care as grandeur — because smaller weddings allow for bigger emotion, more authenticity, and a deeper sense of connection.


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Inspiration: Small Weddings in Exclusive French Venues


Imagine a candlelit dinner under olive trees in Provence, with 30 guests gathered around one long table. Or a weekend in a private château near Paris, complete with a welcome party, ceremony in the gardens, and brunch the next morning. Or perhaps a celebration above ski slopes in the Alps, blending French refinement with breathtaking natural beauty.

These are the kinds of small weddings we love to design — luxurious, intentional, and effortlessly French.


Final Thoughts


A small wedding in France is not about cutting back — it’s about curating something extraordinary. With the right guidance, you can turn intimacy into an art form, crafting a weekend that feels like a private world designed just for you and your guests.

If you’re dreaming of a luxurious micro wedding in France — intimate yet impeccably detailed — we’d love to help you create it. Start planning your small wedding in France →

 
 
 
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Planning a destination wedding in France is one of the most exciting journeys you can embark on — but before you start contacting venues and vendors, it’s worth taking a moment to pause, align, and lay the right foundations.

Here are the key things to think about before you begin planning your French wedding, so you can move forward with clarity, confidence, and joy.


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💍1. Start With an Honest Conversation: Define Your 5 Ws


Before you browse venues or dream up color palettes, take time to sit down together and talk through the five essential questions that will shape everything to come:

  • Who: Who do you want to celebrate with? Sketch a rough guest list — even a ballpark number helps. A wedding for 40 guests feels entirely different from one for 140, and affects every aspect from venue size to catering costs.

  • When: Do you have a specific date in mind, or simply a general season? Being flexible on timing can open doors to more venues and better rates, especially in high-demand regions like Provence or the Riviera. Being flexible on the year might allow you to spend a little more by spreading costs of the wedding.

  • Where: Is there a specific region or atmosphere that draws you in — vineyards, seaside, château gardens — or are you open to your planner’s recommendations? Do you want to make sure your guests don't have to fly two planes and a train to get there?

  • How: What kind of celebration do you envision? A symbolic outdoor ceremony, a chic Paris soirée, or a multi-day countryside experience? Think also of how you want the planning expereince to feel: how involved or hands off do you want to be?

  • How much: How much do you want (and are able) to spend on the full experience?


Why it matters:These conversations aren’t just logistical — they help define your priorities and flexibility. You might have a fixed budget but be open about location. Or perhaps the region is non-negotiable, but you’re flexible with the date or guest count.Knowing which factors are most important — and where you can adapt — will make every decision afterward more aligned and less stressful.


When it comes to budget, clarity is essential. Decide early on who will contribute and how much — whether it’s just the two of you or if family members will help. This ensures everyone is on the same page before you make any commitments.

Think of this as setting your compass before the journey begins — it’s not about perfection, but direction.

🌿2. Define the Guest Experience and Celebration Style


Before diving into logistics, think about how you want the celebration to feel. Is it an elegant long weekend with relaxed meals and wine tastings? A one-day event full of glamour and dancing? Or a small, heartfelt celebration focused on intimacy and connection?


Why it matters:Your guest count and event structure influence your venue choices, budget, and design approach.


Ask yourselves:

  • How many guests will realistically attend?

  • Do we want a multi-day celebration or a single event?

  • Should the experience feel formal, relaxed, or somewhere in between?

France offers a setting for every atmosphere — grand château soirées, rustic Provençal dinners, modern vineyard celebrations, or stylish Parisian fêtes.

💶 3. Set a Realistic Budget (and Understand French Pricing)


France offers exceptional quality — from cuisine and wine to service and aesthetics — but costs may differ from what you expect.


Key considerations:

  • Venues: Many rent for multiple days or require exclusive use.

  • Catering: Expect roughly 25–35% of your budget for fine French dining and service.

  • Planner: Luxury planners typically charge a flat fee or a percentage of the total budget.


At Bonjour Weddings, for example, budgets usually start around €1,500 per guest, with most couples spending between €2,000 and €3,000 per guest for a fully serviced, multi-day event.

Setting a budget early — and understanding how it breaks down — allows your planner to allocate resources strategically while maintaining a luxurious experience.

📍 4. Choose Your Region Before You Choose Your Venue


Each region of France tells a different story. Before falling in love with a single venue, consider which setting resonates most with you.


Regional highlights:

  • Provence & Riviera: Golden light, olive groves, lavender, and vineyards.

  • Paris & Île-de-France: Chic urban elegance and grand historic estates.

  • Loire Valley: Fairytale castles and manicured gardens.

  • Southwest France: Gastronomic countryside charm.

  • Haute-Savoie & the Alps: Lakeside views and mountain serenity.

Think beyond looks — consider accessibility for guests, local vendor availability, and weather during your preferred season.

🕊 5. Understand the Legal vs. Symbolic Ceremony


Many couples don’t realize that legally marrying in France requires at least one partner to reside in the commune for 40 days before the wedding — a logistical hurdle for most destination couples.


The solution: Have a symbolic ceremony in France and complete the legal paperwork at home before or after.

Symbolic ceremonies allow for complete freedom — blending traditions, languages, and cultures in a way that feels deeply personal and authentic.

💌 6. Bring a Planner Onboard Before Contacting Vendors


It’s tempting to start emailing venues and photographers right away — but having a local planner in place first will save you enormous time, stress, and potential missteps.


A bilingual French planner will:

  • Recommend vetted venues that fit your vision and budget.

  • Handle communication and contracts across time zones.

  • Prevent costly misunderstandings.

  • Curate a team of trusted vendors who work seamlessly together.

The best venues and suppliers in France are often booked 12–18 months in advance — and many work exclusively through experienced planners.

✨ Final Thought


Planning a destination wedding in France should feel inspired, not overwhelming. By starting with honest conversations, defining your priorities, and partnering with an experienced planner early, you’ll build the framework for a celebration that feels effortless, meaningful, and beautifully French.

At Bonjour Weddings, we guide couples from those first planning questions all the way through to their multi-day celebration. If you’re just beginning to dream about your wedding in France, we’d love to help you start in the right direction. Get in touch to begin planning your French wedding →

 
 
 
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We plan extraordinary destination weddings in France and Europe for couples from the U.S. and around the world who value beauty, meaning, and considered design. With deep knowledge of the French art de vivre and a curated, creative approach, we craft luxury wedding experiences that feel as effortless as they are unforgettable. From creative direction to seamless logistics, we serve as advocates for your vision—transforming your ideas into a celebration that feels entirely yours: elevated, intentional, and filled with heart.

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